Describe Yourself

You don't need a dating profile, social networking page or anything else in order to describe yourself in the way that I am about to with you.  Who are you, really?

At times we need to check in with ourselves, find out what is new about us, still the same, as well as open to exploring.  So I sat back and thought how might I explain who I am in one short paragraph.

"An avid writer, a conspiracy enthusiast with a nose for useful news...A wife and driven mother of four discerning boys.  An unashamed Christian who doesn't mind sharing life experiences and inspirational advice.  Always learning new things while taking one day at a time anticipating what God has in store."

Once you write a description about yourself, notice the areas where you are still true to who you are as well as those things that have since captured your interest, changed your life, etc.  You never know when you might be asked, "Describe yourself."  I notice that right now I am more spiritual than anything else.  I noticed that the first thing that comes to mind is what has always been with me since I could hold a pencil in my hand, writing.  I am evolving once again "learning" which simply means for me, more changes ahead with a supernatural influence.

So go ahead and try it, write your description, and then reflect on what you said about yourself.  You just might discover something about your future in between the lines of text.

Nicholl

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If you or your company need help with writing, fact checking, photo research, copy editing, and other web related tasks, feel free to send an email to: nichollmcguire@yahoo.com, business inquiries only.

Tis the Season - Springing into New Relationships, Connections

Around this time of year there is an increase demand of relationship and dating material because a lot of people have started new romances back in February.  For years I have ghostwritten many articles for dating websites resulting in an increase of traffic to my clients' websites.  When I am not writing, I have other work around the web.  Feel free to click on the following links:

Dating?  http://lovedatingadvice.blogspot.com

Laboring to Love an Abusive Mate http://laboringtoloveanabusivemate.blogspot.com

Audio about dating related topics and life challenges here:  http://www.yourlisten.com/nichollmcguire

Donations welcome for upcoming projects. https://www.paypal.me/nichollmcguiremedia

Author's Books

Most printed books are available here.

Shopping
Black Friday Cyber Monday Strategies to Use Year Round
http://www.smashwords.com/books/view/596746

Family History
Genealogy X What to Expect When Researching Family History
http://www.smashwords.com/books/view/587712

Recreation
Should I Go to the Party
http://www.smashwords.com/books/view/595947

Relationship
She's Crazy
http://www.smashwords.com/books/view/595466

Too Much, Too Soon Internet Dating Blues - printed book
https://www.createspace.com/6085989

Socially Sweet, Privately Cruel Abusive Men
http://www.smashwords.com/books/view/575764

Laboring to Love Myself
https://www.createspace.com/3401526

Laboring to Love an Abusive Mate
https://www.createspace.com/3332346

Family
Say Goodbye to Dad - A Survival Guide to Breaking Free from Toxic Emotional Ties
http://www.smashwords.com/books/view/554313

Tell Me Mother You're Sorry (ebook)
http://www.smashwords.com/books/view/549977

Tell Me Mother You're Sorry (print version)
https://www.createspace.com/5585253

When Mothers Cry
https://www.createspace.com/3393499

Christian
Know Your Enemy:  The Christian's Critic
https://www.createspace.com/3437273

Spiritual Poems by Nicholl
http://www.blurb.com/b/3113926-spiritual-poems-by-nicholl

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Hyper Focus - Super Concentration - Lambda Monaural Beats

One of many tools to help people train the mind to focus.  Sometimes life can become so distracting that you lose your drive. Learn to tune into sounds other than the typical music heard on the radio.  Take a breath, listen for as long as you can, and then get started on whatever task is in front of you!  To your success!

An Essential Tool for Your YouTube Account - YouTube Video Publishing Tool

What many people don't know about video creation is that it takes time.  Some YouTube publishers spend hours crafting a video that may be just under 10 minutes long.  After creating the video, then there is the editing process--even longer!  If you are working with someone, he or she is going to want to add or subtract details in the video (sigh).  Every now and again the video software doesn't work.  Between adding transitions, special effects, titles, credits, and more for about a week's worth of videos, one can easily burn-out.  But your work as a video creator isn't over (viewers just don't have a clue when they leave their critical comments and thumbs down).

YouTube has there share of functions behind the scenes to ensure the video looks presentable as well as rules to follow.  Once the video is complete using software offline, you ready to upload online and that process, depending on the length of the video, can take a very long time too.  If you are experienced, you most likely have researched your keyword phrases to help generate page views, so that your title stands out.  Then you select a custom thumbnail if you don't like the image the software picked.  In addition, there is the description of the video you come up with and then type out along with links to your website, products, services, relevant videos, etc.  But that's not all...

Tags are included as well.  These are important words that are selected so that viewers can find the video.  A video creator spends much time selecting the right keywords in this section to help viewers find your video.  Afterward, you, who are a newbie or expert, you know what you must do next, right?  Send that link to all social media accounts, share it with relatives and friends, and you know the rest...if traffic generation is important to you.

There are other details too when it comes to uploading a video to YouTube, but I probably already exhausted you with this task list.  This is why professionals use video syndication tools which is online software that helps them with their publishing tasks. When I found TubeBuddy via a blog like this one, I was ecstatic, because I knew what this meant, no more spending long hours doing so much with my YouTube channel.  Since using the easy-to-use video tool, I have created bulk video links with a push of a button.  I have learned how to do other things like, bulk annotations, create easy to use templates so that I don't have to keep typing the same things or going back to an old video to remember what I did to generate traffic, etc.  In addition, I can spy on the competition and much more!  So if you want to save time when it comes to publishing videos, this is the product that you need!  It is installed via Chrome, so you will need to log into that in order to connect the software and also be logged into your YouTube account.  The software is totally legit.  There is no blackhat methods it uses so you don't have to worry about your account being banned.  This software isn't going to generate automated page views, you still have to do some work.  Also, you don't have to download anything and you have 14 days to try it for free and you can still continue to use even if you don't upgrade to the affordable premium choices which are monthly charges that range from less than $10 to $39 monthly.  

I rarely recommend a product on my blog, but this one I can say is definitely worth it for YouTube video creators!  Stop wasting time on research, SEO, custom thumbnails, posting links on each video one at a time (sigh), get this product today!  Shop via my link so that the creators know I referred you, and take advantage of any offers, Tube Buddy If you plan to purchase use coupon code ShoutBuddy. 

Have a great time using it and thanks for your support!

Nicholl

Read Across America 2017: Your Favorite Book/Series

It's a beautiful thing when the young people show support!  Shout out to Dom Kemp, Gaming YouTuber!  Many thanks!

Don’t Like Your Life? 5 Action Steps to Personal Growth

I have had moments in my life where I simply didn't like what I was doing and where I was headed so I made up in my mind to make necessary changes.  Many people are sick and tired of being sick and tired and are ready for personal and professional changes in their lives, but they just don’t know how to go about making their desires happen.

Jobs, relationships, and money, may be negatively influencing the way you see your life right now.  Have you been doing something about it?  You may have already shared with others how you feel about being a wife, husband, parent, employee, or friend.  Behind your back, someone might be praying for you, talking about you, or hoping that things will get better for you.

 

 

You feel this way, because you don’t like the choices you have made.  The children came too soon, the man wasn’t what you had in mind, the woman you married changed drastically, the job wasn’t what you expected, and your friends aren’t available anymore. You might personally believe that you are too old, too tired, too stubborn, or too whatever else to make a difference in your life or others.

Some encouraging people have told you what you should do or say to make things better in your life, yet the advice hasn’t been anything you bother putting into practice.  Maybe the following tips will bring you the peace you need or maybe not.  It all depends on your mindset and what you are willing to receive. Remember at the start of this writing I shared that I had to make up in my mind to change.
 
When someone isn’t happy with his or her life, it is usually because the individual isn’t at peace with one's life choices.  The person struggles with whether he or she should make adjustments, but doesn't want to do anything about problems because the individual feels like one doesn't have enough knowledge, money, time or some other reason.  So that brings us to the first point.

Obtain knowledge on what burdens you the most.  From parenting to finances, there is so much free information that can help you answer all your questions.  You don’t need money for that, but you do need time.  Many people will say they don’t have the time to read a book, watch a movie, or listen to meditative music, if this is how you feel, then your burden may not be as important as you think. 

 

When you really want to do something about a problem, you will make the time!  You’re doing it now, reading this article.  If your husband or wife told you he or she is leaving the relationship, you would make the time to talk with him or her, wouldn’t you?  If someone told you that your favorite sports team was playing at an arena and they had VIP seating and you're invited, you would make the time to attend the game, wouldn’t you?  People are only as busy as they choose to be, so the first thing you need to do is clear some space in your schedule to tend to the things that bother you the most.  Is it your job?  Look for opportunities within the organization to advance.  Children driving you crazy?  Take time for yourself to find out what you need to do to settle them and your nerves down.  Husband still cheating?  You put up with that long enough, focus on an exit plan and obtain legal counsel.  Wife spending too much money?  Find out how to communicate your concern effectively.  Find the information you need to resolve the problem.

 

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Next, after you have educated yourself on what bothers you, make a written plan and abide by it.  For instance, let’s say you have an illness, the doctor gave you tips and a prescription that will help you feel better.  You know you will have to possibly change eating habits, exercise, or refrain from certain activities as well.  Create a plan and post it somewhere in your home that you can see everyday.  People who are the most successful with accomplishing their goals will write them down.

 
Third, inform the people who will be affected by your plan of what you are doing.  If you feel that the adjustments you make in your life won’t affect them, then it won’t be necessary to let anyone know.  However, when changes occur and they affect other people, someone most likely will be upset if you just expect them to do things differently just because you want them to.  So when possible communicate changes.  Unnecessary arguments happen all the time because a person didn’t bother to let the other know.

Fourth, document your success.  For instance, you need to save money, you read about the ways to do it, you made your plan, now document all the times you successfully saved money.  When you read what you had written on a later date and notice all of the accomplishments you have made you will feel good about yourself sticking to your goal.  Reward yourself when you are able to, thanking you for being you!  Don't expect others to praise you, encourage yourself!

Lastly, when you have accomplished your personal and professional goals, share your knowledge with someone else who may be going through the storm you just got over.  You might make a great best friend when you do this.  As a result of your personal experiences, you will be able to tell that person of your journey to rise above difficult people and circumstances.

 

Nicholl

 

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