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This post is one from the heart from my YouTube channel. I share words of wisdom and personal experience for people of faith or those who are looking for a word of encouragement. Enjoy!

The 2026 AI Power Stack: The Only Tools Worth Your Subscription Fee

Look, I get it. We’ve been living in the "AI Revolution" for a few years now, and the sheer volume of "game-changing" tools hitting the market is enough to give anyone digital fatigue. That's why I took a long break from my AI YouTube channel. But I'm back, and as a freelancer and AI workflow consultant, my inbox is constantly flooded with the next big thing.

But here’s the reality: in 2026, we’ve moved past the hype. We’re in the era of utility. If a tool isn’t saving you hours a week or making your output 10x better, it’s all show and somewhat go.

I’ve spent the last few months vetting the landscape, filtering for tools that maintain a 4.5+ star rating on platforms like Capterra and have a track record of reliability. A little bit of this and that is what I like to share from the list with my circle. Now, depending on the project, some work better than others. However, when you get frustrated or are running out of time, you reach out to me, and we will discuss what I can help you with. I'll pick up where you left off, agree? Alright, so to the professional who needs to get things done, this one is for you!

1. The Command Centers (AI Chatbots)

These are your first line of defense for brainstorming, research, and general heavy lifting.

• ChatGPT: Still the king of versatility. With a 4.7+ rating, its speed and generalist capabilities remain the industry benchmark.

• Claude: My go-to for complex reasoning and long-form document analysis. It’s consistently top-rated for safety and nuance.

• Gemini: If you live in Google Workspace, this is a no-brainer. The integration is seamless and user satisfaction is peaking.

• Perplexity: The "Google Killer" for researchers. Its 4.8+ rating for accuracy makes it indispensable for fact-checking.

• Grok: For those who want a bit more "personality" and real-time social data in their creative sessions.

2. High-Stakes Storytelling (Presentations)

Death by PowerPoint is officially over.

• Beautiful.ai: Its 4.7-star ease of use comes from its intuitive design—it literally won’t let you make an ugly slide.

• Gamma: The gold standard for automation. You give it a prompt; it gives you a fully structured deck in seconds.

• Tome: Sleek, collaborative, and perfect for the "mobile-first" era of sharing ideas.

3. The Digital Architects (Coding Assistance)

Even if you aren’t a "coder," these tools are essential for the technical side of freelancing.

• Cursor: Currently sitting at 4.8+ for speed. It’s the "pro" choice for developers who want AI deeply embedded in their workflow.

• GitHub Copilot: The industry standard. It’s like having a senior dev looking over your shoulder.

• Tabnine: A solid, privacy-focused alternative for those who need reliable autocomplete without the cloud-sharing anxiety.

4. Taming the Inbox (Email Assistance)

Stop "checking" email and start "processing" it.

• Shortwave: Smart organization that actually feels like it understands your priorities (4.6+ rating).

• Superhuman: It’s famous for a reason. Fast, intuitive, and built for those who treat "Inbox Zero" like a competitive sport.

5. The Creative Edge (Image & Graphic Design)

• Adobe Firefly: The ethical choice. Integrated directly into Creative Cloud with a 4.7-star rating for pro workflows.

• Midjourney: For when you need pure artistic excellence (4.8+ rating). It still wins on "vibe" and lighting.

• Canva: The "everything" tool for non-designers. Its massive adoption is backed by a 4.7-star rating.

• DALL-E 3: High-quality, creative output directly from your ChatGPT interface.

• Stable Diffusion: The powerhouse for open-source users who want total customization.

• Framer: Excellent for interactive designs that bridge the gap between static mockups and live sites.

• Microsoft Designer: A great integrated tool for quick, AI-assisted visual assets.

6. The "Deep Work" Enablers (Scheduling & Workflow)

This is where the ROI actually happens.

• Motion: My top recommendation for time management. It uses AI to optimize your calendar and tasks automatically.

• Reclaim AI: A master at smart blocking (4.7+ rating). It protects your focus time like a hawk.

• Calendly: Still the simplest, most reliable booking tool on the market.

• Zapier & Make: The glue of the internet. If you aren't automating your repetitive tasks, you're leaving money on the table.

• Monday.com: If you're managing a team, this is the most user-friendly way to keep workflows from falling apart.

7. The Wordsmith’s Toolkit (Writing & Knowledge)

• Grammarly: The editing powerhouse we all know and love (4.7+ universal praise).

• Jasper: Still the leader for high-volume content marketing with a 4.8-star Capterra rating.

• Notion: The all-in-one workspace that has become the "second brain" for almost every freelancer I know.

• Mem: A personalized recall tool that makes searching your own notes feel like magic.

• Quillbot: Excellent for paraphrasing and ensuring your accuracy remains high.

• Rytr: A fast, affordable option for quick-fire generation.

• Writesonic: Known for its speed and versatility in marketing copy.

8. The New Frontier (Video, Data, & Audio)

• Descript: If you can edit a Word doc, you can edit a video. It’s sitting at a 4.7+ for usability.

• Luma AI & Pika AI: The leaders in generating realistic and creative video clips from simple prompts.

• Fireflies.ai: Accurate meeting transcription that integrates with everything.

• Otter.ai: Reliable summaries and real-time notes for those back-to-back meeting days.

• Krisp: Essential for remote work; its noise cancellation and call quality are top-tier.

• Rows AI: A spreadsheet tool that actually analyzes data for you.

• Flourish & Visme: The go-to tools for making complex data beautiful and interactive.

The Bottom Line:

You don't need all 40+ tools on this list. You need one from each category that fits your specific friction points.

May you have success with your next big idea! Remember connect with me if you have a budget to pay for a freelancer. My contact info form is to the right. All the best!

The Art of the Beautiful Mess: How to Thrive When You're Wearing All the Hats

Let’s be real for a minute. If your life looks anything like mine right now, your desk is probably a beautiful, chaotic disaster: a stack of textbooks next to a client brief, a half-finished mug of cold tea (or probably coffee for you), and a notebook full of ideas for T-shirts and blog posts that have absolutely no business being next to your syllabus.

As we stare down the final weeks of the year—and the final push of the semester (in case you didn't know I continued with my doctoral studies after graduation, I know crazy!)—it’s easy to feel like we’re failing at everything because we’re trying to do everything. We’re writers, we’re students going back to school, we’re creators launching side hustles on Redbubble, Threadless, etc. and sometimes, we’re just exhausted humans.

This isn't about productivity hacks today. This is about acknowledging the beautiful, messy truth of the juggle.

Finding the Oasis in the Overwhelm

I’ve been creating pieces lately about finding your "vibe," organizing your life, and finding "stillness." But here's the honest truth: the real stillness often happens after the sprint, in those five minutes when you actually close your laptop and just look at the stack of things you managed to complete.

The inspiration for the next big project isn't found in a quiet retreat; it's found right here, in the middle of the mess you created. It comes from:

• The late-night flash of humor that turns into a perfect, sarcastic t-shirt slogan.

• The obscure reference you found in a required reading that sparks a whole new blog post angle.

• The resilience you find when you turn in a paper and deliver a client article on the same day.

That moment of overlap—where your student brain informs your writer brain, which then inspires your creator brain—is the magic. Don’t try to separate the hats; let them all be stacked on your head at a slightly ridiculous angle.

Three Rules for the Professional Juggler

If you’re feeling the weight of the "all the things," here are my three simple rules for making it through the last leg of the year:

1. Lower the Bar for Perfection: A submitted draft is always better than a perfect draft that sits on your hard drive forever. C-minus effort in one area (say, a less-than-perfect meal) allows for A-plus effort in another (that final paper). Decide where 'good enough' is actually good enough.

2. Designate Your Recharge Gear: What simple item reminds you to reset? For me, it might be a specific oversized mug, a comfortable hoodie, or a notebook I only use for brainstorming. Use these small, physical objects as a permission slip to pause.

3. Celebrate the Micro-Win: Did you finish that tricky bibliography? That's a win. Did you post that quirky sticker design? That's a win. Did you drink a glass of water that wasn't sugary coffee, tea, juice, or soda? Huge win. Acknowledge these tiny successes. They are the fuel for the big ones.

We are building complicated, multi-layered lives. It's supposed to feel messy sometimes. Let the chaos be your confirmation that you're doing the work.

Keep creating, keep studying, and keep showing up. We got this.

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Here’s My Big News (and Why It Matters): I Finished My Master’s 🎓

I’m grateful to share a milestone that’s been years in the making: I completed my Master of Arts in Organizational Leadership and have moved on to studying for my doctorate. For me, this isn’t just a credential—it’s proof that steady faith, focused work, and honest self-reflection can carry you through heavy seasons and into purpose.

What this degree means to me

Earning a graduate degree sharpened how I lead—clearer decisions, stronger ethics, better systems, and a deeper commitment to serve. It also opens doors. National data is plain: people with graduate degrees tend to have lower unemployment and higher earnings than those with less education. That matters in a shaky job market, according to the Bureau of Labor Statistics.

My five-year career plan (the short version)

I’m building with intention. Here’s where I’m headed in the next five years:

1. AI workflow consulting for small businesses and nonprofits—helping teams work smarter with practical tools and clean processes.

2. Leadership development & community education—virtual workshops, short courses, and coaching that turn knowledge into action.

3. Sustainability & stakeholder engagement projects—clear plans, human-centered change, and measurable outcomes.

4. Digital products—toolkits, templates, and guides that remove guesswork for busy people.

5. Writing & media—books, podcasts, and YouTube content that encourage, equip, and challenge.

A word to those recently laid off—especially my Black brothers and sisters

Right now, Black unemployment is rising. In August 2025, the jobless rate for Black Americans reached 7.5%, and long-term unemployment (27+ weeks) now makes up more than a quarter of all unemployment. That’s not a headline to fear—it’s a signal to pivot, skill up, and mobilize resources with strategy. 

Some federal and sector cuts have also hit workers of color disproportionately. If that’s your story, you are not alone—and you are not stuck. pshra.org

How to leverage a layoff (so it works for you):

• Turn pain into positioning. Update your narrative: “Here’s the value I created, and here’s how I’ll create it again.”

• Close skill gaps quickly. Short courses or certificates + strong project samples beat vague buzzwords. (Graduate study still pays off long-term—consider it if it aligns with your goals.) 

• Target resilient roles. Health care, social assistance, and operations/process roles keep hiring even in cool-downs. Watch the monthly BLS releases to aim where the openings grow. 

• Network with purpose. Ask for specific introductions and offer specific value. “Who do you know at X who needs Y? I can deliver Z this quarter.”

• Build a side stream. Freelance what you already do well. Use it as a portfolio, a bridge, or your next business.

• Track momentum weekly. Goals → outreach → interviews → follow-up. Treat your search like a project you manage.

Why I keep encouraging education

When the economy cools, the people with sharpened skills, relevant projects, and proof of outcomes get picked first. The data backs it up, and I’ve lived it. 

If you’re on the fence about finishing your degree

Let this be your push. Map a simple plan: one term at a time, one class at a time, with the finish line in sight. If you need encouragement or a practical roadmap, I’ll share what worked for me and the shortcuts I wish I’d known sooner.

Ending on a high note

I’m celebrating, but I’m not coasting. This chapter is fuel. My aim is to help more people work with clarity, lead with courage, and build with integrity—no fluff, just results you can see.

Call to action

• Books: If you haven’t yet, read my nonfiction titles (including Laboring to Love Myself, Laboring to Love an Abusive Mate, Know Your Enemy, The Christian’s Critic, When Mothers Cry, and Floral Beauty on a Dead-End Street).

• YouTube: Listen in and subscribe to my channels—NM Enterprise 7 (life lessons & leadership) and Resource Rundown (practical tools and scams to avoid).

• Subscribe: Join my list so you never miss new workshops, toolkits, or speaking dates.

If this post encouraged you, share it with someone who needs a reminder that their next step is still worth taking.

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Faith. Fire. Finish: How I Turned Pain Into Purpose and Learning Into Leadership

I didn’t grow up around peace. I grew up around pain that spoke through relatives yelling and being threatening, slammed doors, aching heads and backs, and anxious mornings. I watched the women in my family carry burdens they didn’t have names for (R.I.P. mom, grandmoms, aunts, and great aunts)—until I gave them one. PMDD for those closest to me. Other names: Domestic trauma. Financial fear. Anxiety. I carry their legacy, but I don’t carry it the same way. I decided to use my voice, my pen, and eventually, a camera lens to help people process what they’ve lived through—because that’s what saved me.

In 1997, I gave my life to God, and everything changed. I didn’t come from a deeply spiritual family, so most didn’t expect me to get serious about my faith. Especially after surviving domestic violence in 1996, many figured I would move on quietly. But I didn’t. I drew closer to God through fasting, prayer, and time in the Word. I distanced myself from those who doubted my walk. I chose healing over pretending.

Even now, I get tired. Tired of the evil in this world. Tired of watching good people suffer while others play with power. But I keep going because I know I’m called. I know I’m not powerless. And I know the truth still matters. At the time of this writing, I dedicated 16 plus years delivering it on my channel, NM Enterprise 7 on YouTube.

I first saw the power of my voice as a child. I tried to talk sense into my friends and tattled on them when they didn’t listen. I wasn’t trying to be annoying—I just wanted peace. As I got older, people started to listen. By college, classmates thanked me for speaking up. Today, I use social media, YouTube, podcasts, and writing to test and share truth. Even family members who once doubted me now tell me to keep going. They might not always like what I say, but they respect that it comes from a place of wisdom and boldness.

My younger self would be proud of me. She’d be shocked, actually. That I went back to school, earned my degree, and now I’m working on my Master’s in Organizational Leadership (studies to be completed Aug. 2025). That I didn’t give up when life got hard again last year. That I didn’t let family issues pull me away from school like they did 20 years ago. She’d say, “Get that money like Grandma did it!”—but now I’m doing it with purpose.

I chose organizational leadership because I wanted to understand how businesses really run. I’ve always wanted to be my own boss. I didn’t just want to show up for work—I wanted to lead, manage, and build with integrity. My education is helping me do that.

I stay grounded with routines that feed my mind, body, and spirit. I write things down, use tech tools, and honor the structure I create for myself. I taught myself how to use AI tools (ResourceRundown), how to write and publish books, how to paint with acrylics, and how to research smarter. I’ve spent hours on YouTube growing in faith and mental strength. What I couldn’t afford in coaching, I learned through dedication.

My education hasn’t just helped me—it’s helped me serve others. I’ve supported small businesses and nonprofits, advised women about toxic relationships, and motivated people to go after their goals. Whether it's relocating, creating, or rebuilding something they thought was too far gone—I've encouraged people to believe again.

This is what I want to keep doing. Whether as a manager, consultant, or community leader, I want to keep turning truth into transformation. I want to keep choosing purpose, not just survival. And I’m committed to finishing what I started—not just for me, but for every woman and girl watching.

Nicholl McGuire 

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Exciting News: Everand Now Has My Books!

I am pleased to announce my association with Everand, where you can browse and buy my ebooks! Many people relate to my collection covering many topics from personal growth to relationships.

What's Available?
 

Laboring to Love Myself

Laboring to Love an Abusive Mate 

Socially Sweet, Privately Cruel Abusive Men 

Say Goodbye to Dad: A Survival Guide to Breaking Free from Toxic Emotional Ties

and many others! 

Everyone can find inspiration, self-improvement, or direction via challenging situations.

Why buy from Everand?

Free 30 Day Trial: Read my books without commitment!
Wide Selection: Read different genres and authors alongside mine.
User-Friendly Experience: Read smoothly on multiple devices.

Visit my Everand author page Nicholl McGuire to find ebooks to help you on your healing journey. Your help means everything!
 

Be moved to rise above every situation! 

Before AI - One of the Sites I Spent A lot of Time Writing Articles and Marketing Products

It's amazing this site is still around! Welcome to my HubPages profile here! Back in the day, I spent a lot of time writing from my bedroom/home office in Los Angeles County. I shared my thoughts and insights on various topics for over 15 years on that site. My articles covered spirituality, relationships, parenting, women's interests, and entertainment, reflecting my diverse interests.

On HubPages, you’ll find 49 articles that explore everything from online dating advice to the challenges of motherhood. To date, I still provide readers with practical tips and relatable stories that resonate with their experiences on other sites, but this one is a gem, it holds great memories and deep thought. Some of my standout pieces include discussions on domestic violence, tips for turning blogs into books, and the complexities of relationships.

I still maintain many blogs and engage with my audience on platforms like Twitter/X and YouTube, where I share even more insights and inspiration. If you're interested in topics that challenge conventional thinking and offer new perspectives, I invite you to explore my work on HubPages and other places around the web! Feel free to poke around my blog. Enjoy!

Nicholl McGuire Books Now Available Here - Turn Row Book Co.

Welcome to Turnrow Books, one of my favorite online bookstores, where you can find my titles alongside a curated selection of literature. This wonderful store is dedicated to fostering a love for reading and supporting authors like me. With a diverse range of genres, Turnrow Books provides an easy shopping experience.

I’m thrilled that my books, including "Socially Sweet, Privately Cruel Abusive Men," are now available here. The team at Turnrow is passionate about books and offers excellent customer service, making it easy for readers to discover new favorites. Whether you’re looking for insightful reads or the latest bestsellers, Turnrow Books is a fantastic place to explore and shop. Happy reading!

Check out Socially Sweet, Privately Cruel, Abusive Men here. 

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Embracing Change: Lessons from My Life of Relocation and Family Growth

Throughout my life, I've experienced the unique challenges and rewards that come from relocating frequently. My beginnings in Pennsylvania prepared me for moving to places like Colorado, California, and other wonderful states. Each move was not just a change of address; it was a necessary step to support my family, and it shaped my journey in profound ways. I matured mentally, and spiritually and learned along the way to encourage others who also want to spread their wings and fly!

Every new town brought with it a fresh opportunity to connect with local church members, attend community meetings, and support individuals and businesses. These connections became my lifeline. I learned to appreciate the power of community, understanding that each person I met had a story and a lesson to share. From a business owner who complimented how well-behaved my sons were to the manager of a popular grocery chain sharing how he knew from youth, it was his calling. Whether it was helping market a charity event or simply talking with a neighbor, these interactions enriched my life and deepened my understanding of the world around me.

For instance, in one community, I was fortunate to partner with local entrepreneurs, helping them craft compelling narratives for their businesses. This not only honed my writing skills but also taught me invaluable lessons about resilience and creativity in the face of adversity. Each experience reinforced my belief in the importance of supporting one another, especially in challenging times.

Striking a balance between family and business wasn't easy. There were times when the demands of work felt overwhelming, and I struggled to juggle deadlines with family commitments. However, these challenges have taught me the importance of prioritizing what truly matters especially during the pandemic.

With my children now older and pursuing their own passions, I've found a renewed sense of joy and freedom. Watching them chase their dreams reminds me of the sacrifices made along the way, and how those sacrifices have ultimately contributed to their growth. They have become independent thinkers and doers, and I am at peace knowing that our journey—as challenging as it sometimes was—has equipped them with the tools they need to walk their own paths.

As I reflect on my journey, I am filled with gratitude for the life lessons learned and the relationships formed. Each relocation has been a chapter that contributed to my personal and professional growth. The struggles of balancing family and work have paved the way for deeper connections and a richer appreciation for the present.

Now, as I stand at this new crossroads, graduating this year with a Master of Arts in Organizational Leadership, I celebrate not only my own achievements but also the milestones of my family. I am excited to support them as they pursue their passions, just as I did for them in their formative years. Together, we continue to grow, learn, and embrace the changes that life brings.

In the end, it's not the places we've lived that define us, but the relationships we've built and the lessons we've learned along the way. Here’s to the adventures yet to come, and the joy of sharing them with those we love.

Nicholl

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NM Writing Journey and New Beginnings Completing Degree and New Career

Hello, everyone! 

I decided to express my gratitude to all! These days, writing has not occupied a great part of my life, but other studies have been a big part.  Back in 2024, I returned to a university in my hometown after a 25-year absence! I completed my bachelor of arts degree in multi-disciplinary studies the same year. 

Before my return to school, for many years, I dedicated all my work to writing and speaking personally and professionally by expressing myself through many nonfiction books and speaking engagements while helping others with their family legacy projects and business support. 

My freelance writing continues along with my fresh career path in 2025. As for now, I am in academic training to become an organizational leader. The path ahead brings me great enthusiasm because I plan to use my writing skills together with my leadership abilities to motivate others. I am deeply thankful to everyone who has backed me throughout the years. Your support through shares and likes together with your subscriptions has given me greater motivation than you can imagine! 

My dedication remains focused on helping people through their faith journey while delivering knowledge from this new phase of life. I will maintain periodic updates about my current work and will share additional information throughout this journey. Your support means everything to me, as you have been part of my life's narrative. 

Blessings to you, 

Nicholl

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Congratulations to RDL Films!

In the past and most recently I partnered with R.D.L. Films to assist with their film projects. I was tasked with screenplay review, film set production, marketing assistance and other related tasks. Volunteering has helped me put into practice a combination of skills to help with future projects. Feel free to view this intriguing cinema of young black excellence, enjoy!

Radio Interview on The Good News show sharing insight on relocation, faith, and life-changing experience

 This interview was one of my favorites, I met Danielle in 1991! I had a wonderful time, enjoy!

https://soundcloud.com/danielle-m-smith/good-news-nicholl-mcguire-author-9-15-23

Welcome to my blog!

Some of you know me on YouTube, others you follow me on Facebook, thank you so much!

But did you know? I am also on Instagram and TikTok do check me out on those platforms!  Posts are periodic. Each social media platform has its own personality reflecting who I am and what I do from writing tips and past family life posts on Instagram to impactful and at times fun videos on TikTok, there's a little something for everyone.

See you there and thanks for your support!

On Helping Churches, Spiritual Individuals with Projects - Nicholl McGuire Media

Hello! I work with churches, nonprofits and small business owners. In this video, I tell you a bit about myself and what I have done for some clients. Feel free to like, subscribe, share and comment. 

Thanks for stopping by!

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Tips on Writing Creative Nonfiction Stories and Feature Articles by Nicholl McGuire

If you're thinking about writing a creative nonfiction story or article, there are a few things you should keep in mind. 

First, your piece should focus on true events. This means that you'll need to do some research to make sure your facts are accurate. However, don't let the research process overwhelm you – remember that you're telling a story, so the most important thing is to keep your reader engaged. You can see an example of this when you read my work, “Say Goodbye to Dad” which has a variety of experiences fatherless daughters and sons have incurred but also there is research to explain personality disorders and unhealthy relationships.

Second, while it's important to stay true to the facts, don't be afraid to inject some creativity into your writing. After all, the whole point of creative nonfiction is to tell a fascinating story that will captivate your readers. So don't be afraid to use literary devices like similes and metaphors to bring your story to life. This had been done in my poetry anthologies: “Floral Beauty on a Dead-End Street”, “Laboring to Love an Abusive Mate,” “Laboring to Love Myself”, and “Spiritual Poems by Nicholl.”

Third, make sure you have a clear focus. creative nonfiction stories and articles can be about any topic, but they should always have a central theme or message. Once you've decided what you want to write about, brainstorm some ideas and think about the best way to structure your piece.

Finally, don't forget to edit and proofread your work before you publish it. Even the most well-written story will benefit from being read aloud and from a second pair of eyes – so ask a friend or family member to read over your piece before you hit "publish." By following these tips, you can be sure that your creative nonfiction story or article will be captivating and enjoyable for readers.

Get started working on your book today!  Start with an easy-to-use platform that I have partnered with Bookemon.  The set up is quick.  You are able to use templates to create your work and the turn around to print is reasonable. You can also create audiobooks!  Learn more by clicking on the image below.  

All the best!

On Writing About Yourself

"I was thinking..." the start of a statement like that and it puts everyone on notice.  Yes, thinking can be dangerous to anyone who chooses to act in fear rather than love.  I choose love and have been choosing love when I write for decades contrary to what any critic would like to think!  I love victims, survivors and victors.  I have trouble loving enemies that is why I lean on God since he commanded we do so. This is why it is a must that I tackle any work I produce with God in the plan, because any other way I would then consider myself a fraud.  I don't agree nor do I support that kind of foolishness!

Maybe it would be easier for some of you reading this blog post to draw out your personal truths by doing the following: writing a song, singing, drawing, painting, dancing, acting, producing a play or traveling.  Whatever you choose to do, don't leave this world without being honest with yourself and those around you!  

Let's start with a little self-examination, shall we?  Prior to you reaching out to me or someone else to possibly tell your story, consider the following:

1) What do you want the world to know about you and why should they care?

2) Who are you really trying to help?

3) Why should we listen to you?

4) Will you approach the work ready to pay to create it, cry as you reflect on past memories, beg someone for a second chance, borrow from those who don't mind sharing, avoid the temptation to steal from those who put their time in..., are you sincerely ready to complete what beckons you to share?

5) How about who or what is it that inspires, motivates, and moves you to love them, and once again, why should we care?

6) When do you plan to pen, speak, or type your work and how might you stay motivated in completing your work?

7) What if you knew you were going to die tomorrow would all the hope to create your work really be necessary?

Part of knowing whether you are in fact honest with yourself and others is to interview yourself.  You will soon discover that you aren't ready just yet, but your getting there.  So go back to doing what makes you feel comfortable, isn't that what typically happens anyway?  Whatever it is that keeps you distracted from tending to what really matters and that is what your soul is telling you.

The reason why most people don't really commit to writing a book or any creative work that exposes them (although they desire to) other than those laughable excuses, "I'm too busy" or "I don't know what to write about," is they know they can't be honest with themselves or anyone else!  Those excuses, depending on who is saying them and how they are saying them, are funny to me, because I know they make plenty of time prepping food for a holiday gathering where stuffing faces is a requirement and I know they have some idea of what to talk about, because they sure know how to talk themselves out of doing things that might leave them feeling vulnerable or talk about what others are doing that they are not!  Therefore, there is still time for some individuals to figure out what they would like to leave behind for us all, but not so much for the many hard-hearted (even in my own family.)

People aren't getting any younger and so the clock of life continues to tick.  The thought of why you made certain life choices and not others gets buried.  Why you do what you do is never explained.  Who you really are when there is no makeup, wig, or nails polished...?  What you really stand for when no one is interviewing you?  When did you stop striving for that one dream and picked up a career instead?  Why you married who you did and did you ever plan on being a parent?  

A lot of people will check out of this world never telling us how old they are, who their parents are, the secret life they have lived, how broke they really are...we will learn from kinfolk or strangers, we will learn something in their passing that would have been better said had they told that above ground.

When you write or create something about you, let it be honest, straight from the heart!  Be vulnerable share your regrets, faults, and other weaknesses just as much as you share your achievements!  Social media is encouraging false narratives to be told for many people.  Let me help you write an honest life story in your very own words!  Begin your journey with me today!  We will go over your book idea and as your book coach, I will be there to encourage and advise for a reasonable rate.  Simply send an email to:nichollmcguire@yahoo.com with, "I need a book coach" in the header.

Most recently I decided to finally share a chapter of who I am, not in the traditional fashion of nonfiction books filled with challenges and wisdom like what I have already written (I have 17 self-published books now), but simply showing my story in stillness and peace I have found during my family moves.  I started out in Pennsylvania; however, I have lived in Ohio, Georgia, Colorado, California, Illinois and have visited my share of states. 

I didn't build upon any of my creative works by diving right in; rather, I started my writing quests in stillness then the words came.  In order to visually see what I am talking about and wear one of my timeless gift items, check out my new shop, "Stillness Gifts" here. I will be periodically adding more products soon.  Feel free to like, share, and purchase these eye-catching items today!

Nicholl

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